This various gift is not sold in stores. You can presented it every time, and don't need to buy! Even so, this gift may be the most beautiful and priceless gift to those you care about.
1. ATTENDANCE
The presence of a loved one seems to be a priceless gift. Indeed, we may also be present in front of by mail, telephone, or fax. But by being beside. You can share feelings, concerns, and love more fully and intensively. Thus, the quality of attendance is also important. Make your presence as a bearer of happiness.
2. HEAR
Few people are capable of giving this gift, because, most people prefer to listen to, rather than listening. It has long been diketehui that the harmonious relationship between humans is very determined by the willingness to listen to each other. Give this gift for your partner. By devoting attention to every word, indirectly we also have developed the patience and humility. To be able to hear properly, make sure you are in a state of relaxed and really can capture what is delivered intact. Face-to-face. No need to interrupt, criticize, much less judgmental. Let your partner finish. This lets you give the appropriate response after that. Not necessarily in the form of discussion or assessment. Just a thank you, will sound sweet to your lover.
3. SILENT
As the words, in the silence there is also a strength. Silence can be used to punish, expel, or confuse people. But more than anything. Silence can also show our love to someone because it gave your lover "space". Especially if the day-to-day we have been accustomed likes to advise, manage, criticized and even reprimanded.
4. FREEDOM
Loving someone does not mean give us full rights to own or manage the person's life. Can we claim to love someone if we are always trapped? Giving freedom is one embodiment of love. The meaning of freedom is not, "You're free to do what ever you want." Much deeper than that, give freedom is to give full trust to be responsible for everything that your lover decided or done.
5. BEAUTY
Who would not be happy, if people who loved suddenly look more handsome or beautiful? Appear with a beautiful and shapely is also a gift you know. In fact, nothing wrong if you make it as a gift every day! Besides the beauty of personal appearance, you can give away the beauty of the atmosphere at home. Vases and beautiful fresh flowers in the family room or dining room table landscaped, for example.
6. POSITIVE RESPONSE
Without, consciously, we often give a negative assessment of the thoughts, attitudes or actions of people we love. It was as if nothing is true of your lover and only absolute truth in us. This time, try to gift a positive response. State clearly and sincerely. Try to remember, how many times in the last week you would like to thank you for everything your lover does for you. Remember also, have you ever praised your lover. Those two things, thanks and praise (and apologies), is a gift of love that is often forgotten.
7. WILLINGNESS TO SUCCUMB
Not all problems deserve the subject of argument. Especially to be which great hassle. You should consider, whether a relationship can be sacrificed to fall apart just because of that problem? When you think about this, you're ready to give a gift "willingness to succumb" Okay, you may be upset or angry because he came late to appointments. But if it happened only once, so why should be the trigger which prolonged quarrel? Willingness to succumb also can release the hurt and invites us to realize that no one is perfect in this world.
8. SMILE
Believe it or not, the power of the smile is very remarkable. A smile, especially given sincerely, could be defrost frozen relations, giving spirit in despair. lightening gloomy atmosphere, even is restless soul sedative. A smile is also a signal to open ourselves to the world around us. When was the last time you rewarded the sweet smile on your loved ones?
1. ATTENDANCE
The presence of a loved one seems to be a priceless gift. Indeed, we may also be present in front of by mail, telephone, or fax. But by being beside. You can share feelings, concerns, and love more fully and intensively. Thus, the quality of attendance is also important. Make your presence as a bearer of happiness.
2. HEAR
Few people are capable of giving this gift, because, most people prefer to listen to, rather than listening. It has long been diketehui that the harmonious relationship between humans is very determined by the willingness to listen to each other. Give this gift for your partner. By devoting attention to every word, indirectly we also have developed the patience and humility. To be able to hear properly, make sure you are in a state of relaxed and really can capture what is delivered intact. Face-to-face. No need to interrupt, criticize, much less judgmental. Let your partner finish. This lets you give the appropriate response after that. Not necessarily in the form of discussion or assessment. Just a thank you, will sound sweet to your lover.
3. SILENT
As the words, in the silence there is also a strength. Silence can be used to punish, expel, or confuse people. But more than anything. Silence can also show our love to someone because it gave your lover "space". Especially if the day-to-day we have been accustomed likes to advise, manage, criticized and even reprimanded.
4. FREEDOM
Loving someone does not mean give us full rights to own or manage the person's life. Can we claim to love someone if we are always trapped? Giving freedom is one embodiment of love. The meaning of freedom is not, "You're free to do what ever you want." Much deeper than that, give freedom is to give full trust to be responsible for everything that your lover decided or done.
5. BEAUTY
Who would not be happy, if people who loved suddenly look more handsome or beautiful? Appear with a beautiful and shapely is also a gift you know. In fact, nothing wrong if you make it as a gift every day! Besides the beauty of personal appearance, you can give away the beauty of the atmosphere at home. Vases and beautiful fresh flowers in the family room or dining room table landscaped, for example.
6. POSITIVE RESPONSE
Without, consciously, we often give a negative assessment of the thoughts, attitudes or actions of people we love. It was as if nothing is true of your lover and only absolute truth in us. This time, try to gift a positive response. State clearly and sincerely. Try to remember, how many times in the last week you would like to thank you for everything your lover does for you. Remember also, have you ever praised your lover. Those two things, thanks and praise (and apologies), is a gift of love that is often forgotten.
7. WILLINGNESS TO SUCCUMB
Not all problems deserve the subject of argument. Especially to be which great hassle. You should consider, whether a relationship can be sacrificed to fall apart just because of that problem? When you think about this, you're ready to give a gift "willingness to succumb" Okay, you may be upset or angry because he came late to appointments. But if it happened only once, so why should be the trigger which prolonged quarrel? Willingness to succumb also can release the hurt and invites us to realize that no one is perfect in this world.
8. SMILE
Believe it or not, the power of the smile is very remarkable. A smile, especially given sincerely, could be defrost frozen relations, giving spirit in despair. lightening gloomy atmosphere, even is restless soul sedative. A smile is also a signal to open ourselves to the world around us. When was the last time you rewarded the sweet smile on your loved ones?
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